Open Letter to Prime Minister for reinstating country name as "Bharath"

Namaskara,

I like to congratulate your government for taking decision to hoist national flag in all universities. Shocking news is some people opposed the decision of hosting flag in universities. These anti-nationals are more dangerous than terrorists.

The things happening in JNU campus shock whole country. I was dumbstruck when I heard the slogans of “Azadi” in JNU campus. I think all terrorist organizations and enemies of our country are more than happy by this incident. What else one asks for? What JNU guys are doing is Intellectual extravaganza. Only freedom JNU students should ask for is from international funds for research.

We got our political independence 69 years back. Now from whom JNU guys are demanding azadi? As one of the prestigious and intellectual university of country, JNU should think about bringing economical freedom to people.  As a prime minister of country, you are working towards bringing economical freedom; I like to wish you all the best for your sincere efforts.

It is the time for us to nationalize the country; we need to start from the basic. Government should work towards instilling pride about our culture and history in students. It is the time to rewrite our social science textbooks, which did tremendous injustice to our freedom fighters and history of our country. First of all, we need to reinstate old of name of the country. Hereby, I demand you, Mr.Prime Minister to take an initiative to reinstate “Bharath” as our beloved country name. You read it correct, it is India that we need to remove from our heart, mind, papers and boards.

India is slave name. We are free and independent people, we shouldn’t let others and ourselves to address us as by slave names “India” or “Indians”. Lets have our own identity at the international level. I am proud to call myself “Bharatiya”. All of us call ourselves as Indians with pride and proud feeling.

All around the world, our country is famous as India. But does it real name? When the country that is called as “Bharath” for innumerable years suddenly became India. Even today when we speak with in country, we call our country as “Bharath” or Hindustan and ourselves as “Hindustani” or “Bharathiya”.  But in international level, it is always called as India and Indians.

In last 20 years, important cities of our country like Kolkata, Mumbai, Chennai and Bengaluru reinstated to old names. When Calcutta can become Kolkata, why can’t India becomes Bharath.

Even after letting foreigners to rule 800 years, we are still protected our culture, values and diversity to some extent. To become independent in the real sense, we need to remove all the attachments of slavery. First one in the list is reinstating our country name as “Bharath”.

Can we stop Handshake?

          

I hardly have seen people doing anything other than Hand Shake while greeting irrespective of whenever and wherever they meet others. Meeting friends, relatives or colleagues, starts and ends with Hand Shake. Why we are so prone to imitating? And we laugh at china by saying no one can beat china in copying? Aren’t we beating china in copying other cultures?

I will narrate few incidents from my life that opened my eyes. Recently I had attended marriage engagement with friend. My friend is around 28 years old. He was speaking to elder lady; suddenly middle-aged woman called his name. She was happy to see him. First thing she did when he went near her; Handshake. I can’t believe what I had seen. I tried to analyse this incident in two ways. First, even housewives also know party manners. Second even housewife/mothers also became western and forgot our culture. Irrespective of age or relation, people do hand shake. In childhood, we used to see hand shake only in films when villains make deal.  

I was in world famous jog falls. I sneaked in and spent good time on top of the falls. I was sitting looking down at the people who are viewing falls. Suddenly I heard “Namaste”, I was pleasantly shocked and surprised when I saw foreign couple. I said “Namaste” then I realizes, last time I said “Namaste” is more than a decade back. “Namaste” felt so foreign to me that moment.

I have seen cousin/relatives who purchased blazer for marriage by paying 10-15k but wore only on one day (i.e. reception day) till date. We have our own unique marriage dress why do we need blazer?

Are we copying only from western countries? No. We are copying from everywhere, within India too. In proper Karnataka marriages, there is no dance or mehandi program. Now there is sangeeth, which is pin-to-pin copy from north India marriages, Only Hindi songs played during sangeeth.

Above-mentioned incidents are very small but impact is not negligible. We can’t even guess our magnitude of westernization. If a mother do handshake, how can her child do anything different?

I am travel enthusiast, I like to explore and know different culture. In present situation, I feel there is no need for a foreigner to come India to know our culture because we will be having almost everything similar. We are using same steel/plastic utensils, driving same bike/cars and wearing same dress as westerns. So tell me, where is Bharatiya culture or identity? From many decades, we are calling our parents as mommy and daddy, relatives as uncle and aunty, or strangers as sir and mam. From long time we stopped putting hands on our friends shoulders but started hugging irrespective of gender.

There is one positive incident also. I had attended corgi friend marriage in Virajpet, Karnataka. I was pleasantly surprised when I saw people touching their elder’s feet while greeting. I meant to say instead of handshake they are greeting by touching feet. Almost all relatives of groom and bride were wearing their Kodava dress.  I was very happy that day, as Bharatiya culture still exists among few of us.

Is it wrong to copy? No we have to take the best from others while retaining our best. For example: Jeans easy to wear and can wash once in month.

Lets try these below simple things to preserve our culture in small way

In Karnataka, we have lot of Kannada songs so lets play Kannada songs in Sangeeth.

Lets greet by folding our hands with respect or touching feet of elders instead of handshake.

Lets preserve suit and handshake for business purpose only.

Lets say Namaskara/Namaste instead of Hi/Hello.

Lets put hands across the shoulder instead of just hugging.

I take this opportunity to ask you to question yourself. As a Bharatiya, you have to protect your identity and culture. Think in your own way; share the same in your circles.

Series of Cultural Shock at Coorg Marriage

When we reached Mysuru KSRTC bus stand at morning 5am, interstate bus packed with mallu's waiting for us to board. Virajpet is one of the four taluk in kodagu district. The way is so beautiful but I was not able to enjoy the beauty as I was tried by sleepless night. My eyes are closing automatically. Me and my cousin tried to keep ourselves up so that we don't miss our stop. Both of us didn't know much about Coorg marriage so we are confused about how much time we need to stay in marriage hall. Finally we decided to stay in lodge as we badly wanted to sleep and hot bath after sleep. We had landed inside old crumpled building which had lodge board outside, however rooms are pretty decent.

During check inn, we saw few mallu guys with beer bottles entering side lodge. Those guys had a expression of Olympic medal winner. As Kerala Government for banned alcohol consumption, Karnataka border cities are hub for Kerala people to drink.

Reached marriage hall around 10am after sleeping in cold room for 3 hours straight. My cousin worked in chennai for two years. He had a coorgi roommate in pg. As both of them are outside, they were close and kid of tribe brotherhood. I accepted to accompany with my cousin for marriage only after he agreed to travel with me for next 3 days in coorg. So here we are landed in coorgi marriage by thinking are attending just another another marriage visit but little less we know it will turn to one of the memorable marriage I ever attended.

We joined wth people are having light snacks in the entrance. Snacks included sweets, coffee, tea,etc. As we are never shy of food, we took full plate snacks and landed on empty chairs. Most of the elders were wearing traditional  Kodava dress. Eye catchy item is Knife like structure in the waist in silver colour. Both of us surprised when we saw people touching their elders feel irrespective of gender while greeting. As we do only hand shakes while greeting, this gesture remembered our culture. Irrespective what of work they are doing, people used to touch elder feet. I was bowled by kodava culture. But sad thing is handshake are also creeping in slowly. Many people irrespective of age doing hand shake even ladies too.

Young generation of kodava boys and girls are comfortable in their modren dress like shirts, blazers, lehengas etc. Are kodava's also losing their tradition slowly like others? or May be they don't have traditional dress ready yet.

Second surprise is separate queue for men and women to wish newly wed couple. It seems kodava's are more civilize than others in term of giving equal status to woman. Not only in queue, kodava's woman can also drink in their home.

I had one more surprise when we went for lunch;open bar. I was expecting home made wines but they had every kind of drink available in regular bar. As I am newbie, I went with a glass to get beer just like in brewery but they offered me full bottle. As elders occupied places, we started searching for a place to drink by holding plate full pig curry, kabab and beer bottle. We settled in to place near  elderly person who was lonely having hard drinks. By seeing our discomfort and shock, He guessed that we are not Kodava. He worked as Police Inspector and now settled in mysuru. He was also surprised as drinks available both on both day and night. He shared few interesting things with us about Kodava culture like expense of marriage shared between both groom and bride side, Kodava dress cost around Rs.25000 and now only close relatives wear Kodava dress in marriages. The environment is superb and kicking.

After receiving series of culture shock, We went for a walk in less travelled path. Even though, Kodagu is only 250km from my place, culturally we are far apart. I can't imagine expense sharing in marriage and open bar in our side marriages.

I had another shock when we went to have lunch because of sitting arrangement. Now, every where people adapting buffet system. Our side, every convention hall designed to accommodate around 300 people and sitting arrangement is row wise. Each row can accommodate 50-60 people. Catering guys serve all the item one by one. But in this convention hall, there is no seating arrangement like that. Convention hall is built to server through buffet system. In centre of convention, there is place for keeping dishes in roundtable manner. I am very shy by nature but due to travel my shyness is shredding slowly. Confidently, I asked the dish name to catering guys when i was not able to identify the dish. Notable improvement in me. We had pleasant time while having lunch as we were sitting against most beautiful gal in the hall.As groom is free, we had small chit chat and he invited for evening ceremony.

After a nap in lodge, We started to walk towards marriage hall in evening. Throughout the way, we drenched in rain. Marriage hall was looking like a party hall now. There were gals and boys dancing in front of bride. And Open bar was still there with lot of snacks and full bottles.  Now gals are in dancing in complete modren dress, most of the guys had a drink in their hands. Atmosphere was very pleasant. Occasionally groom also joined the dance crew. We didn't got courage to dance so I settle with beer and snacks. Cousin bought me second beer when I finished first bottle in few minutes as I was getting better taste now. Custom of dance is people are stopping bride entering to hall by dancing in front of her.

From the time we enter inside hall, beautiful was stealing glances. She turned her chair so that she can sit opposite to me. Then she pushed her mother to dance. She was dancing pretty well for her beauty. sometimes she was looking at me to check whether I am still watching her dance. I forced my cousin to have dinner when she stopped. I tried my level best to start conversation with her, I was about to greet her and congratulate for wonderful dance but her mom came suddenly. Words died in mouth and that's the end of it.